Hand-outs fail to empower people and have negative effects. On the other hand, making work available to a person goes along with dignity and empowerment
If I could offer my younger self some advice, it would be don't be so hard on yourself. Even bad decisions are stepping-stones to growth, so there's no point in agonising over mistakes
Only you have the power through resilience, focus and determination to succeed. In defining the word 'success' one finds that it is different for each person